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              Etiquette At Symphony Concerts

               

              Sense-ational Concert Etiquette

              Some ideas and guidelines about behavior during a concert

              by Martha Stanley, NBCT EMC-Music
              (C) 2001

              Contents

              Why do we go to concerts?

              How can we help the performers?

              What is the basic rule for the audience 
              to remember?

              Why is a concert a multi-sensory event?

              What is "Sense-ational 
              Concert Etiquette"?

              Sense of Hearing

              Sense of Vision

              Sense of Touch

              Sense of Smell
               

              When we go to concerts, we may go for many reasons,
              but the most important reason is
              to watch and listen to the performers.

              The performers are NOT on television.
              They are alive;
              they can see and hear the audience;
              they want to be able to do a great job for you.
              Good concert etiquette helps the audience have a good experience.

              What some people fail to realize is that the audience can also help the performers perform better.
              With no visual or auditory distractions, performers can concentrate on giving a great performance.
              They are trying their best to present an enjoyable musical experience for everyone.

              To help the performers do their best:

               

              • Don't wander around in the auditorium, especially while the performers are performing.
              • Arrive on time. Stay till the end of the performance. Don't leave early to beat the rush.
              • Don't take pictures. Especially flash pictures.
              • Turn off all your noise making gadgets, like watches, phones and pagers.
              • Take your coughs outside. And noisy kids.
              • Clap enthusiastically to show your appreciation. Don't holler and hoot.

               

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              Over the years audiences have developed certain ideas about what is appropriate for concert behavior or concert etiquette.
              If everyone follows these ideas, everyone can have a positive experience at concerts.

               

              The basic rule is this:

               

               Don't do anything 
              that makes people notice you 
              instead of the performance.

              Be courteous.

              Use good judgement.

              Use the restroom before the concert.

               

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              SENSE-ATIONAL
              CONCERT ETIQUETTE

               

              A concert is a multi-sense experience.
              You experience the concert with four of your five senses:

               You see it.

              You hear it.

               You may feel it in the vibrations in your chair.

              You may smell the scents of the concert hall, or
              if you are close to the performers, you may even smell the instruments.

               Hopefully, you don't taste it!

              Going onto the stage and nibbling an instrument 
              or two would be highly inappropriate, 

              perhaps even disgusting!
              The orchestra members probably 
              would not appreciate it at all!

               

              Therefore,

              SENSE-ATIONAL
              CONCERT ETIQUETTE

              allows all the participants, including the performers,
              to have a positive multi-sense experience.

              Some people don't realize this and they do things that can prevent us from experiencing the music without interruption.

              Most of the bad examples listed below come from the real life experiences of the writer of this web page. And each of them is just as likely to be done by an adult as by a child!

              Once you get the idea of how you might disturb others, you will be able to use good judgment in your own behavior.  Common sense and normal courtesy will always be good standards to use.
               
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              earSense of Hearing

              • Don't talk or whisper or whistle or hum or sing or drum your fingers or click a pen or tap a pencil or chew your gum loudly or open up crackly food wrappers or snap your fingers with the music or sniff, snort and cough or comb your hair so others can hear you pulling the tangles out.
              • If you start and continue to sneeze or sniff or cough, please leave the auditorium quietly and quickly. This allows others to concentrate on the music, not on you. This includes taking out crying babies and little kids.
              • Turn the pages of the program or the music score (if you're following along with the performers) so that others can't hear the pages rattle.
              • Come in and be seated before the concert starts. Moving around makes an audience notice your sounds, not the music sounds.
              • Make sure your "beepy" electronic gadgets won't go off during the performance. TURN THEM OFF. This includes watches, phones, beepers and anything else that might disturb others.
              • Do I even need to mention portable radios, portable games and CD players? Leave them at home. (Using a recording device may be considered a copyright violation.  Don't do it.)
              • All performers appreciate enthusiastic applause. Loud screams, whistling, etc., belong at rock concerts, not at symphony performances.
              • Be careful that your clapping is not so loud that it hurts the ears of the people near you.

              Don't do anything 
              that makes people hear you 
              instead of hearing the performance.

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                Sense of Visioneye


              • Don't wiggle around or comb your hair or wave your arms or bob your head around or wave your program or try to get your friends attention or rock back and forth in your seat.
              • Please don't wear hats or have "big" hair. You could block the view of five or six people!
              • If you have to use the restroom, do your best to hold it. Sit calmly until the music stops and the audience claps. Then in a calm (but fast) manner, leave the auditorium. Do not come back in until you hear clapping again. Then enter and be seated quickly and quietly.
              • If you arrive late, wait outside the concert hall doors until you hear applause. Then enter quickly and quietly. If you don't know where your seat is, find another seat quickly. Sit there until the intermission so you won't disturb others by hunting for your correct seat. Promise yourself to be on time next time.
              • Never use cameras during a performance. The noise is annoying and the movement of the camera operator is distracting and the flash is just awful! Even the performers can get confused and make mistakes when cameras are going off at the wrong time.
              • The only person who should EVER take a picture during a performance is the person hired by the symphony, the official photographer. S/he will know when to click, when to move and when to be still and quiet. S/he will also have the kind of equipment that will not need a flash. (A flash does no good further than about 10 feet anyway.)  Video/digital cameras are quieter (but not noiseless), but the movements of the operator are very distracting. No one else should take photos of any kind from the time the concertmaster/mistress tunes the orchestra until after the performance.
              • Do not bring something else to do while you are listening, like a book, laptop, or homework. Leave your Pokemon cards and other pocket sized fun things at home. Seeing you dig them out and fiddle with them is very disconcerting to others.
              • Don't pass notes to your friends.
              • Dressing up is optional, but a classical concert is one of the few occasions left that might be called "special" in our increasingly casual world. Consider dressing up as a sign of respect. After all, if the musicians are in tuxes and gowns, the least you can do is iron those khakis and wear something better than sneakers. Jeans and flip-flops just won't do.

              Don't do anything 
              that makes people notice you 
              instead of noticing the performance.

               

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              Sense of Touch  man playing piano

               

              Its hard to imagine that the sense of touch is involved in a concert, but it is. You'll notice it when:

              • the person behind you starts tapping or pushing the back of your seat in time to the music.
              • when someone a few seats down from you keeps rocking her chair around and you can feel it.
              • when the person beside you hogs both arm rests.
              • when the person next to you puts his coat or her purse in the space where your legs are supposed to fit.
              • when someone in the row behind you gets up to leave and accidentally bonks you on the head.


              Be considerate. Keep your motions and your "stuff" in your own space.

              Use the rest room before the performance so you won't feel uncomfortable and fidgety.
               
               

              Don't do anything 
              that makes people feel you 
              instead of noticing the performance.

               

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              Sense of SmellGrouchomask

               

              Yes, even your nose gets into the picture at a concert.
              Remember - if you are noticing a scent, you are not noticing the music.
              Even if it's a nice scent.

               

              • Some folks think that part of dressing up is to put on a lot of v-e-r-y fragrant after shave or perfume. This can make others nauseated, have allergic reactions or headaches. Use "good scents": leave them at home.
              • Some folks get so comfortable in their seats that they remove their shoes and pee-yew - - not a good idea! Keep your shoes on.
              • Some folks don't bathe enough or they have on dirty clothes and they --well, they stink. Don't be one of them.
              • Sometimes the mint or gum that folks eat during concerts has a very strong odor. Don't eat during a concert. Besides, the noise during unwrapping is extremely noticeable during a concert.

              Be considerate. Use scents "scents-ibly."

               

              Don't do anything 
              that makes people smell you 
              instead of noticing the performance.

               

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              That is a LOT to remember!

              To keep it simple, just remember this:


              Don't do anything 

              that makes people notice you 
              instead of the performance.

              Be courteous.

              Use good judgement.

              Use the restroom before the concert.

               

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